Aaron, I did that to my sig and avy to make you look like the fucking idiot you really are. Like anyone cares..Your post shows us that you are the bitch here.. must be beacuse you havent got laid in a few YEARS!
...but then if this is the way you talk to females then I don't blame them.
You really must not have nothing in your life that you choose to throw insults at someone who is half way across the world form you... shows that your a pussy..
Oh yeah. Aren't I the foolish one now? Kind of similar to how you were ragging on Suze for her dots and multiple posts... hmmm... catching on yet, Hayley?
The comment about my sex life was just silly, Hayley. Really.
And no, it's the way I talk to anyone who is acting like a self-centered brat.
Your geographical positioning relative to mine has nothing to do with what I say and how I say it. Besides, the point is moot as the same could be said for you.
"Liddlecutehayley" wrote ...
You think I am all of them things.. have you ever spoken to me on MSN? the phone? In real life... NOPE! but you keep thinking you know me..
I know you from how you present yourself on this here message board and THAT is what I'm reacting to. The way you present yourself here will keep me from ever talking to you in any medium outside of this place. I don't pretend to know you, but only know the persona you exist as in this community. Is that idea starting to sink in yet?
The rest of your comments are simply asinine rhetoric that deserves no respone as they just back up my previous statements.
At least his insults have a great deal of relevance to the conversation.. Yours however have NONE. Its grammer school style doo doo that is only used to distract from the REAL problem. Lets see if you can do a little better than exterior bullshit that means absolutly nothing from now on. can you possibly lay out some constuctive critism somebody can actually use? If he hasnt gotten laid he probily does'nt have any sexually transmitted diseases to give the right girl when she comes along. ....how about you hayley? how much are you getting? ..........................I dont care because its none of my fucking business!!!! as a wise man once wrote take fucking note! ......I guess I only use dots when I'm happy.
You rock, girl! Amazing how someone can have so many typo's and use so many dots but can still make more valid and poignant comments than the girl bitching at her.
I told Hayley I'd drop this, and so I will... no matter how badly I'd love to respond to her last comment... Suze seems more than able to handle this on her own. *bows out to Suze*
I also let Hayley know that I felt she should apologize for how she treated Suze... noob or not... it's up to her if she wants continue down this path or take the high road, suck it up and apologize for her uncalled-for outburst.
1108afe6d9="CelestialApokalypse" wrote ... I'll drop it. It would be nice of you to apologize to Suze for your outburst however.
No can do. I was pointing out what I saw as irratating. I am allowed my opinion.
Plus I didn't know all of you knew her. so In my eyes she was a NEW noob. So you see, my point is..1) I thought it probably would have been said already.2)I said what anyone 'would' have said if it was a NEW noob.. I mean look how some others where treated.
"Celestialapokalypse" wrote ... Whatever Hayley. I've spent enough energy on this issue. I really don't care to argue it anymore because you just don't get it. It's wonderful that you have opinions... it's wonderful you're not ashamed to voice those opinions... but what isn't wonderful is how you decided to voice your opinion. It was harsh and uncalled for (whether some of use knew her or not). Now you could go ahead and continue to think you're totally justified in your ways or you can take the high road, put your ego aside and simply apologize for your rude outburst. It's one thing to give a noob a hard time but to just snap on them like you did IS NOT how we really treat noobs. It's your choice and this is the last I will discuss about it with you.
I'll let the rest of you all make up your own minds about this. My point has been made and I wash my hands of this.
You have said that twice now... so fucking drop it already...
But wait... you wont because you love the drama... like ever other fucker on here.. DRAMA DRAMA DRAMA! Be careful you dont piss you're pants with excitement.
This is the most I have ever seen you on here Aaron... Loving all the attention.
You are so far up your own ass, I tryed to talk to you like a fucking HUMAN in that pm Just to ask you to drop it and you go and do this..
THIS PROVES that you are 1) two faced, because it was only the other day you where all ''thanks hayley... lick!'' and now you are all ... 'You're this... your wrong your that'' well have you ever thought to step back and try and see my point here. Nope. You just assume I an catty... Bitchy... ''because that is the hayley we all know'' crap. Well for once I fucking wasn't and didn't think much of my post. People like you take it the wrong way... thats your problem. 2)Not always right. I dont have to agree with everything you fucking say. I am just ment to nod my head so ''yes Aaron'' and say sorry... FOR WHAT? I was telling her where the fucking edit button is... END OF. 3)Very Very immature...yu act like this at one comment about an edit button which, in my eyes I thought someone had already said it too her... you also dribble at the fact that someone has posted pictures of boobs in the photo thread... need I say more.
Now I hope people really look deep into your posts Aaron because I'm sure next week this will be forgotten and you would have moved onto someone else like the little attention grabbing little boy you are.
suzette, In all honest I didn't have a problem with you and if I am right you didn't even take my comment as an insult. (Thats how I read it anyway)However when people like yourself come on this board and make comments about me that have known me for 2 days how am I ment to react... smile and say 'YES I AGREE'' I dont think so.
If I hadn't of said anything then in a few weeks/months time it would have been someone else but because it is me... The ''catty bitchy one'' (By the way I dont even know you so what have I got to be bitch and catty about?)Everyone jumps on me like the fucking hypocrites you are.
Now I would like to say that some of the people on here.. (and little few) are really nice.. I talk to them on the phone, text, talk on msn and one has even sent me prezzies in the post, more then once(and can I just say.. thanks guys <3)Would these people do that If I was the bitch you make me out to be.. No I doubt it.
Finally I couldn't give a flying fuck what you or your little whore has to say, The only people that I would care about know who they are. I just wanted to point out that you guys are wrong for what you have said and wrong for what you took as an insult.
Now who needs to learn how to take a joke.
No you can sleep easy knowing that I don't want anything to do with you or this board anymore. People know my msn, email and telephone number. They can find me there. I WILL not put up with someone as pethetic as you try and make out that you are the big macho man in all of this for sticking up for suze. Just remember... I'm on the otherside of the world and you are typing on a computer...I've had fights with bigger men then you in the past face to face. You wouldn't be throwing insults at me if we where face to face... and everyone knows it too. Now who's the pussy.
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hayley, fucking die, or chill out
did ever think that Aaron felt comfortable offering his opine to you about this perhaps represented the notion that he is/was your friend? I don't think he even wants this fight.
Friends should be able to swap a criticism now and then, this blather about 2-faced behaviour is immature on your side.
I'm sure your definition of 'hypocrite' is not mine then. It seems your idea of a friend is someone who agrees with you all the time.
I have not YET seen Aaron make a personal insult to you, yet all you got is comments about his sex life and sudden rampant need for attention.
All this commotion and hubbub about 'other side of the world' and fights on the computer is a vacuous arguement. This 'fight' started here, why should it not be carried out here?
You're a degrading little spoiled cunt who could use a slap
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Honestly Hayley, I know it is a sort of tradition to give newbs a hard time, but you were much more like, who the fuck is this girl and why does she think she has a right to exist? Suz is going through some tough times in her life and she is a very sweet person, just as you most likely are in person. When I read all the things you had posted, I felt a tinge of pain for Suz because she is here trying to fit in and needs people to talk to right now, much like I felt for you when the fat comment was made, I know how you are about that. And you sit here now and pretend it is nothing? Why is it ok to treat anyone like that, even if we didn't know them? It was simply mean and unnecessary, if you are a nice person, then apologize, that's what nice people do when they make mistakes. Like Aaron said, it wasn't what you said, it was how you said it, you are allowed your opinion, but you aren't allowed to freely trash someone simply because you think they are an easy target. You were acting like some sort of low grade school yard bully and real friends will tell you the truth about things like this, not seek to placate simply to stay in your good graces, that's pretty pathetic in and of itself.
"Liddlecutehayley" wrote ... Now who needs to learn how to take a joke.
This was NEVER a joke, Hayley.
As for the rest of your post, I really don't even need to bother replying to it as it speaks volumes of your character in this community. It reinforces the points I've made already by bringing them up-front and center for all to see and judge for themselves. You may be a wonderful person in real life with lots of people who care for you, I'm not going to argue with that because that would be nothing but simple conjecture, but that sure as hell is not how you present yourself here.
Mike is right. I do NOT want this fight. I, however, was trying to defend someone who I felt was wronged. I would do it again in a heart-beat for anyone here. I'm not trying to sound noble, it's just how I am... throughout my entire life. I don't even know Suze and I had never spoken with her prior to her posting here. Sure, I get annoyed with all them dots but I wasn't going to snap on her because of it. She has a bubbly, infectious and even endearing personality when you can decipher her posts. So I felt it was unjust on your part to verbally tear her a new one because of dots and repititious posts.
At this point Hayley, you must realize I'm really not trying to fight you. I'm trying desperately to make you understand my point of view. I don't know whether you're tying to bate me anymore by posting such venom, but it's not going to work. Just let me know that you understand where I'm coming from and we're done here. If you wish to continue to play the role of the victem; you aren't going to garner much sympathy from me.
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^5
And now she has deleted her whole picture thread. I thought Thrash didn't allow that shit?
So I will say what I said there. That pic of the sunflower is frame-able. *wishes I had saved it* And you 'are' a photographer, lots of great pics, now stop this childish crap Hayley and let's all have fun.
Ok.... Time I have to say my $0.02 about shit like this...
And if you read NOTHING else in this retarded thread, read what I have to say in here..
I dare not quote all of the above, because I do have some comments to all of it... But.. i'ma just take one post where I thought some key things were good points...
(and this goes to everyone, I am not going to say this to anyone specific)
"Arcane" wrote ... Like Aaron said, it wasn't what you said, it was how you said it,
Ok.. This is true in many facets in life... If you feel your "other half" is going to wear something you find DREADFUL in public with you, which would you rather hear :
1. Honey, I really don't think that outfit compliments you and your overall style and how you present yourself.
or
2. My fucking GAWD! You're going to wear that?! That looks like Ray Charles' fingerpainting experimentation, with paisley undertones!
ONE of these ways is the proper way to do it... One just makes the person want to kill you.. EVERYONE has faced SOMETHING like this in life.. Tact, People, is what keeps us from saying the second.. (even if the reaction WOULD be funnier!)
wrote ... you are allowed your opinion, but you aren't allowed to freely trash someone simply because you think they are an easy target. You were acting like some sort of low grade school yard bully
On this point, I have to bring up another thing that's been bothering me for a little while.. you mentioned a certain "hazing" that happens to Noobs... which, *shrugs* IS tradition really... Hell, Look at the owner of THIS VERY BOARD and how he's treated some people, some of which STILL post here.. I guarantee that at the time, you weren't feeling so 'warm and bubbly' yourselves..
And, mind you, I'm CERTAINLY not excluding myself out of ANY of this... I have driven people outta places... Remember when I would pick on a certain "Cannucking Idiot" over on TBB... I had her a few times where she wanted to leave... Did I really want her to go? Well, No honestly... But it was fun to me because I thought the "tough love" thing would have shown through.. I thought Mel was a good (perhaps even great) poster... but she was dumber than a fence post, and funnier than watching a monkey trying to fuck a football...
My overall point is this: If you're a Noob (Here... Tbb... Asylum... ANYWHERE) you're most likely BOUND to get fucked with... The people on the other end of the monitor feel in some way that you're "invading" in a space they call their own little playground... Thus, you get the shit knocked outta you verbally... is it personal?! fuck no... It's just the way it is.. There is no real need to make it personal.... Ask Pat and Dee... *IF* anyone can still find the fuckers...
Coincidently, all of the Noobs at one point will say or do something that someone else can't stand... But let's keep ONE thing in mind here,.... THEY DON'T KNOW THE LAY OF THE LAND... THUS, THEY DON'T KNOW WHAT'S TABOO...
Now, I admit, I use a lot of periods as well... (you can tell)... But nowhere NEAR the amount that Suze does.. (she's the 'queen', pardon the pun) Does it annoy me that she uses half a page of dots... Yep! Will I say anything about it? Most likely not... Why? (well.. I don't really care for one...) EVERYONE HAS THEIR OWN POSTING STYLE, AS WELL AS PERSONALITY... Much like in real life, are you going to like EVERYONE you meet? Of course not, and to expect so would be asinine
wrote ... and real friends will tell you the truth about things like this, not seek to placate simply to stay in your good graces, that's pretty pathetic in and of itself.
Good point here, Arcane... Calling a spade a spade is a good thing to do... Again, much like you're not going to like everyone you meet, you're not going to like everything they have to say or think... it's HUMAN NATURE... But friends are always willing to forgive and forget over things like this.. We (humans) know that nothing is ever going to be EXACTLY like we want it in this life (or if you're hindu, your many other lives), but in the end, we're all on this ball of insecurity known as Earth for a reason... What that reason is, I have no clue... Perhaps I can get some of what Lovernios was rollin' in that one pic and tell you all later (Kidding... I don't do that kinda thing)... But in the end, we all manage to co-exist with each other off of this thing called "Internet"... so what's the fucking excuse behind why we can't do it ON this thing...
Now, on the serious note on here... I'm sick of people feeling like they need to get to the point where they're better off leaving than having to deal with certain types of bullshit on here... People have WAAAAAAAAAAAAAY too many stresses in life as it is, they don't really deserve/need to put up with inane bullshit here as well... The main idea for the Flaming forum was devised by Thrash a while back as a place where if people were having a disagreement, they can work it out in any way they saw fit... And do you know what happened in the majority of instances... Everyone walked away seeing a new light of the person they were bitching with/at... ALMOST everyone walked away and was able to be civil with the person they were once at odds with...
Want an example? I AM ONE!!! As most of you know, Aside from the whole thing with Pat and Dee.... Brooke and I were never able to STAND each other online, and had some of the most BRUTAL bitchfests known to the boards... Now, we have learned to tollerate each other... I'm not going to go so far as to say we're the best of friends, but neither of us have said a cross statement to the other in quite some time...
*THIS* was what this area/forum was made for.... Come in here... Bitch to each other... complain... slander.... abuse... Who gives a fuck!?! We (Admins) were tired of seeing good message areas being bogged down by hateful statements and meaningless bullshit to the original topic of the thread... so thus, Flame was born... We gave you a section to have it out.. But lately, people have been going to great lengths to piss others off... People are attacking so visciously that they're making other posters feel unwelcome...
The Tsi way has -=ALWAYS=- been about free speech, so we won't ask ANYONE to 'tone down'.... What we WILL do is ask the people stop being so FUCKING SENSITIVE about what's said in here... or on the board... or ANYWHERE... In the end, when it comes to the flames, you don't *NEED* to read them.... Shit, you don't NEED to read ANYTHING on here... if someone calls you out, and YOU don't feel like arguing... DON'T GO IN THE THREAD! (Hell, I've done this before as well)
Bottom line is, if you want to leave... hell.. .we can't stop you... But we're all here (each and every one of you) because we want to have fun of some sorts... *YOU* are all the reason why We (Tsi) have been in existance for WELL over 20 years... and *YOU* are the reason why WE will strive continue to do what's right for *YOU*... That's our committment!
Now, with ALL that said.... I don't really give a FLYING FUCK if you (WHOmEVER YOU ARE) feel you are owed an apology, or if you think someone else owes one... I don't give a fuck who said what and why... Bottom line is, what was said is said.... take it with a grain of salt, shut the fuck up, and get on with your lives...
I'll tell you one thing, I *HATE* losing posters on here... and Hayley, if you feel that the damage in this thread is not able to be reversed, that's your perrogative to leave.... But I, for one, will hate to see you go...
Apology, no apology... I don't fucking care about it... But this Grade-school mentality is beneath us -=ALL=-
