Suze, you seriously have some fried brain cells in that noggin of yours, don't you?
Nobody ever said to choke you or suggested that you would like it.
Zoomie suggesting to Kyle that he stop being a pussy and choke his girlfriend is what's colloquially referred to as a "joke".
My seconding of the bad advice presented in Zoomie's "joke" now runs with said humor and enters the realm of satire with it's parody of knuckle headed male opinionation and the irony being that yes, despite the uncomfortableness and even inappropriateness of mistreating a woman in bed that some of them do in fact enjoy it, perhaps even a startlingly high number.
No sensible person could possibly construe my suggestion that Kyle punch his girlfriend in the eye and mutter degrading sweet nothings as a genuine suggestion on how to explore their relationship.
wrote ... krapsna wrote ...
Hey, don't go passing judgement on Kyle's chick because she wants to be choked to near death!
You're into some kinky shit yourself lady, I mean, look at what you're writing.
This was what I would call "friendly banter" and again "satire". Notice how the playful choking has now turned into absurd near murderous recklessness?
wrote ... ...if you don't like the answers I have, ask another girl! ...good luck finding a girl who will answer this candidly.... .....*looks around* .......good luck finding one that will answer at ALL.
I never asked, I am only entertaining myself by posting what I had assumed were obvious absurdities. I'm also assuming that we are all in appreciation of your candor.
wrote ... asshole!
Normally when someone calls me that online it warms my heart, but in your case I harbor no ill will toward you and it hurts my feelings.
Edited Tue Feb 10 2009, 07:07pm
I'm sorry, I did'nt mean to hurt your feelings...I was smiling when I wrote it... ...it was also a joke....that's why I wrote lol after it. I harbor no ill will toward you either, and I HAVE burned out a few bearings.
there IS a thing called Auto-erotic asphyxiation... ......I actually know someone who is into it.
I had to go do some stuff and did'nt have time to go back and read if i missed it.
.....I'll get an explanation together in a second...I don't want you to go around with hurt feelings....
Various methods are used to achieve the level of oxygen depletion needed, such as a hanging, suffocation with a plastic bag over the head, self-strangulation such as with a ligature, gas or volatile solvents, chest compression, or some combination of these. Sometimes, complicated devices are used to produce the desired effects.
While often asphyxiophilia is incorporated into sex with a partner, others enjoy this behavior by themselves, making it potentially more difficult to get out of dangerous situations.
Victims are often found to have rigged some sort of "rescue mechanism" that has not worked in the way they anticipated as they lost consciousness.
In some fatality cases, the body of the asphyxiophilic individual is discovered naked or with genitalia in hand, with pornographic magazines nearby, with dildos or other sex toys present, or with evidence of having orgasmed prior to death.
Bodies found at the scene of an accidental death often show evidence of other paraphilic activities, such as fetishistic cross-dressing and masochism.
Breath control by a gasmask and a wet piece of leather in a BDSM role play
In the BDSM community, interactions of this nature may be referred to as breathplay or sometimes edgeplay, and generally include a partner. Because, like other forms of edgeplay, breathplay pushes the limits of "safe, sane and consensual" activity, situations involving breath control can be assessed using the acronym RACK or Risk Aware Consensual Kink. Partners are generally expected within this community to be cognizant of and responsible for the dangers that they may take part in.
Some individual cases of women with erotic asphyxia have been reported.
The mean age of accidental death is mid-20s, but deaths have been reported in adolescents and in men in their 70s
Lawyers and insurance companies have brought cases to the attention of clinicians because life insurance claims are payable in the event of an accidental death, but not of suicide.
History
Historically, the practice of autoerotic asphyxiation has been documented since the early 1600s. It was first used as a treatment for erectile dysfunction and impotence.
The idea for this most likely came from subjects who were executed by hanging.
Observers at public hangings noted male victims developed an erection, sometimes remaining after death (death erection), and occasionally ejaculated when being hanged.
