wrote ... Hayley, you should know by now that you're in no position to lecture me about anything at all
*Sighs*
Yeah so, I want to say sorry to Brooke. I know we spoke on MSN before but what that hell
You Upset me so much. I couldnt AIM you because you where never online on my computer.
Im not a bitch and Iam not stupid. I only said stuff to you, to hurt you Because you hurt me.
I wanted to talk to you like an adult. At first I said that I wasn't going to argue with you, Just like Dan said too. That should have been the point where I wished you hadn't taken it further.
Yeah so Im sorry.
Another thing. I judge people on my own. If I don't like someone Then It has nothing to to with anyone else saying things to me. Iv heard things about alot of people on this board. as you may have heard things about me too, but I dont know anyone to say I hate or like them.
At the end of the day this is just a messageboard..and to a point I dont give a crap what people say to or about me. But when It starts getting personal, Like about my job and stuff then that does piss me off.
Yeah so anyway.. The old flame topic is awesome. I still want to know how long ago that is.. God doesn't time fly.
And I would like to apologize to Hayley for the comments I made. I only made them to hurt her feelings after misunderstanding some of the things she said, and the reason behind her saying them.
All of those things were just words on a message board and couldn't possibly mean much since I don't truly know you. Hopefully, we can be better online friends, however, and in the future settle these misunderstandings by simply asking each other.
I too, tried to contact you through AIM but thought you had blocked me. It also didn't help when a certain someone came in throwing around his personal baggage as if he were doing it to protect you. I associated that with you. The more false accusations were tossed towards me, but with no evidence or anything to support them, the angrier I became.
But we've solved things now, and I can appreciate that. As far as the aol thing not happening, perhaps its because Dave's computer is fucked up and everytime I try to do anything online or through AIM I get a --server error, or something like that.
But realize that I don't think those things about you. I explained to you about the asslicking comment as well, and why I said it.
But if there is anything that you don't like or wish to be deleted, just let me know.
The only reason I kept on is because I didn't feel like you were respecting what I was saying, even after I apologized for being so harsh with my words.
And if you want me to delete any of the old flames with you in them, let me know as well. Although I do think its funny how things change over time. The dates of those should be listed in the thread.
oh and the speeding busses and razor blade comment was from a flame between you and Dave a long time ago. I would never personally even think that way. Maybe that demented mentality runs in the family. They don't really mean it though, hopefully.
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Well, apparently we've all forgotten one thing here: I OWN THIS BOARD. I'VE BEEN RUNNING BOARDS LONGER THAN MOST OF YOU HAVE BEEN ALIVE.
.... and, lastly
I WILL FUCKING RIP YOUR LIPS OFF PERSONALLY IF ANY OF YOU, EVER, YELL AT ME OVER WHAT OTHERS DO ON HERE AGAIN.
Here's my simple explaination: Dan has been my brother for years, obviously, and he's also been a GREAT SysOp on the old boards. He fucked up; HARD ... He also fully acknowledged it to me. However, I didn't want to throw away his YEARS of good service for this, so he's reinstated. If you don't like it, go fuck yourself with a large pole.
The flip side of that; if you fuck up like that again (as with any admin or mod), it's gone, forever, THE END; also, outting someone's alias that's a known poster is now added to that list. Sometimes people want to be somewhat anonymous when they post something sensitive or they want to innocently fuck with people; it's allowed and it's why I'm not stringent of how people sign up; capice'?
I've had to hear it ENDLESSLY how I'm not fair, and how I've just let this go FROM ALL SIDES.
Fuck every one of you, seriously.
If you have a problem with person A and I am related to/fucking/or good friends with them, YOU WORK IT OUT! I will NOT be put in the middle as I have been this past week OVER INTERNET BULLSHIT ON -=MY BOARD=- ...
I will NOT be told what to do ON MY BOARD ..... I will not be yelled at about the other while they are SLANDERING THE OTHER IN MY EAR OR ON THE BOARD; DEFEND YOURSELF!....
I will not put up with it .... Grow up, motherfuckers, it's about time; ALL OF YOU.
This is a BOARD ... NOT A REALITY SHOW!
On the flip side ... In anger, some of you said things that might not have been exactly all true. Fine ..... Just know to take what you've read in this thread WITH A GRAIN OF SALT!
THIS IS A FLAMING FORUM ... You really SHOULD leave personal shit out, however, I CANNOT and WILL NOT be liable for it ..... The only exception is the posting of specific personal information (Full names, addresses, phone number, etc without consent). It is a VIOLATION and will be dealt with HARSHLY with NO PREJUDICE ...
Read the guidelines and the forum name BEFORE YOU POST HERE ... And DO NOT expect me to choose sides over personal issues that really don't involve me.
I will judge call outs .... Again, if they fall in lines.
This all being said, fuck every one of you that called me a pussy or the likes for TAKING MY TIME TO EVALUATE this. Pressuring me won't get your asses very far, I promise yuo that. This is a situation where I was put SMACK-DAB in the middle of a rivalry ....
I'll have no more of it, and I'll have no more animosity to me here or in real life from ANYONE if I CHOSE NOT TO GET INVOLVED. It's a viable and acceptable choice by me.
Flame as a game, or fight like little fucking children, either way, it's MY CHOICE what I choose to respond to; not yours ... and not to "take sides".
These were all BLANKET STATEMENTS, nothing is specific to anyone, so don't take it personally to any one of you.
Carry on .... You know, if I haven't offended the fuck out of you with MY VERSION of the truth.
PS: I'm not debating this, and I'm not replying to anything in reference to this.
PPS: Upon thinking I think I'll add these two things: 1) This really only applies to the Flaming Forums ... If this had taken place in any other forum I'd have ripped asses and defended those wrong-saids. I'm not necessarily at liberty to do so during a "flaming match" ....
2) IT WAS A BLANKET STATEMENT .... Don't take things so personally.
Actually it does involve you when YOUR BROTHER decided to go in and POST PERSONAL SHIT ABOUT MY LIFE AND YOUR LIFE when HE DOESNT KNOW WHAT IN THE FUCK he is talking about.
I will Never put up with any dumbass, lame, motherfucker that claims he's a psychologist, defaming my name when 1) he doesn't know me and 2) he has no proof behind his insane claims upon my REAL LIFE.
If he doesn't understand why I post what I do, I don't give a fuck. He will not tell me the reason I do it is because this and that, after all he would know because he's displayed his brilliance in so many areas, repetitively.
He is one of the most ignorant, foolish, idiotic, irrational, angry, unyhappy, and closeminded bastards I have ever witnessed post on a messageboard as if he was the complete opposite. I can't say met, because my knowledge of him doesn't go beyond what is written in the land of the FAKE.
All I wanted you to do was to stand up for me and tell him specifically, no, she isn't like that. I didn't care if youd done it on your board, in person, or on the phone. If you've misunderstood something you've seen or that I've said, then I'm sorry brother. Do you really think I'd be with Brooke if she singled out every girl I ever spoke to in real-life and on the internet because she was jealous of them because they were female? Because if you think that about me, then that is an insult toward me as well as her.
I dont give a fuck if your brother is an administrator so long as he doesn't keep letting his unjust anger allow him to fuck with people's shit unneccassarily.
The bottom line is, he is the one that posted personal shit in this thread. People would logically assume that he must know what he's saying because he is your brother and why would he make claims like that unless they were true.
So it was up to someone else to state they were bullshit, besides me.
I got mad because you neglected to do that. In my opinion, saying nothing is almost condoning what he has said.
When someone from my life makes inaccurate statements about you to my face, through another person, or on a board, I am the first one to tell them that they are absolutely wrong.
And why wouldn't I? Why would I want people I associate with, love, or care about thinking things about you that are false and inaccurate?
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"Brooke" wrote ... The bottom line is, he is the one that posted personal shit in this thread. People would logically assume that he must know what he's saying.....
This is something you don't have to worry over Brooke. :wink:
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Upon thinking, I really need to add this: Barring a few mishaps along the way, my staff (admins and mods) have been great and I'm glad to have you all.
I just didn't want to leave this thread with such a negative post.
The users are great too ....
You all help make us what we are and have been for over 20 years; we cannot and could not do it without you.
However, please ... HEED THE WEIGHT OF THAT POST ABOVE.
All that aside, collectively, we're all a great machine here and I thank you all.
