If it was the best day of your life when I said I would never speak to you again, It's time for me to ruin your pathetic life once again.
You are a melancholy, droll dumbass, that can't see a positive thing if it smacked him upside the head like a Louiseville Slugger.
The only thing you know of me, and I know of you is the bullshit that is posted on the internet.
The difference is I don't hold a personal vendetta against you for the idiocracy you post here.
I'd like to assume, from the one personal conversation and the AIM conversation I had with you, that you are not the lameass, self-tootin, arrogant prick that thinks he is capable of giving relationship advice to others, as your online persona would mislead people to think.
Even though I think there are definately some great qualities that you just don't make very apparent on boards, I feel you are an imbecile for mainly one reason.
You jump into forums to defend your older brother as if you were Prince Charming, when in actuality, Thrash makes you, Asphole, look like Mother Theresa.
Did it ever occur to you, when you prance into threads throwing your "who hurt my brothers feelings" blather around, it makes him look like five times the pussy you are.
Sure, Dave and I have had our differences. Who hasn't in a 3 year relationship? Maybe instead of attempting to contribute to those problems by preaching to the multitudes, you know the three fans you have, with your prevaricating malarkey, you might open your eyes to the truth, just this once.
The truth being, that no matter how much you hate certian things I've posted : the frequency of sex in MY relationship, a drunken episode from your brother, or sarcastic comments aimed at your brother, that actually turn him on, to name a few; are small instances in a relationship that I am allowed to speak, post, or secretly think about, without any permission from Your Highness, Jackass, which would of course be yourself.
You have this mistaken notion, that I am not allowed to post certain things because.. well they involve your brother.
You do not, however, school your brother when he posts personal things about himself, states himself how he fucked up when was drunk, or details of our sex life. Probably because, even though you don't want to hear about those things, you know better than to say anything like that to HIM, and escape with your scrotum still attached.
Furthermore, did it ever occur to you, that certain stories, such as your brother pissing in the kitchen sink are sometimes just funny to mention, and are stories that other posters WOULD NOT JUDGE HIM FOR?
The thing I most discredit you for, however, is your reasons for hating me and the fact that they are all slanderous inaccuracies.
I mean, if you are going to hate me, then hate ME. Not some evil troll you've imagined for your brother, because you cannot imagine a happier life for him.
So what, when I first started posting on message boards, I didn't understand them completely. It didn't take me too long before I caught on to most people's styles and lack of seriousness.
I will stand up for myself, however, when I feel someone has gone a little too far, and I'm not sure if the line between joking has been crossed. Your brother respects me for that quality, and if you don't, then who cares? You are not your brother, nor his keeper. You are not the one that decides what may or may not hurt his feelings, and therefore should or shouldn't be posted.
As far as the accounts you've heard from your brother himself, you would also be a fool to judge me soley on those versions of his stories. What guy, especially Dave, goes around telling -anyone- about that romantic night he had with his girlfriend, or how everything is going "really swell" in thier relationship. And since your brother's anger at times is as demented and seething as your own, its no wonder why the few times you've heard him speak of me, you've developed a false one-sided view or our relationship.
Most of all, you are an addle-pate for thinking you know someone that lives thousands of miles away from you, when you know nothing of their life, their hopes, their dreams, other's opinions of them, thier qualities, or thier true mishaps.
Next time you decide to share with everyone that you hope I die a painful, bloody, death and actually mean it, take into consideration that I am here for your brother on a daily basis, no matter if your snot-nosed gutternsnipe self recognizes it or not. I am here for him when he's down, when he needs my help or advice, and to praise him when things couldn't be better in his life.
If he has been with me through thick and thin for three years, then there must be something about the "me" you've envisioned that might be mistaken.
You were right, the other day, in only one thing that you posted. I do love your brother, and I display it as much as I can in every way that I can, because that is how I love someone.
I know you are incapable of understanding the depth to my posts at times, and at other times you see too much depth to them.
My purpose in this callout is certainly not to receive any respectful or acknowledging statements from you. As your past posts prove, you are likely to post the exact opposite. My purpose is to defend myself the best way I know how against a railroad of falsehoods you've discombulated over the years.
Surely even in your most cretinous state, you'll see that this call out has no other motive than the one I've mentioned. I am not jealous of you because you act like a whiny school girl, nor because you like the other "women around here...... have the proper 'equipment' ."
I'm calling you out because I'm tired of your baseless arguements. In your response, I expect an actual crticisism against me. Oh, but wait, that is probably imposible for someone who doesnt even read all of my posts, much less even attempt to get to know me as a real person.
If instead you continue posting benign ranks such as "you're just calling me out, because you're as mean as a hand grenade to each and every one of the girls on the board" balderdash, then I will play your game and do the same.
wrote ... It really shouldn't be done on a messageboard, People read things wrong. People get hurt, and its sad because you guys are prolly both special to Dave, However it sound like you are trying to fight over who loves him the most... Which really shouldn't be an issue. If you both really love him that much then you would get along with each other.
You both need to realize that you are BOTH a part Dave's life, and you BOTH have to sort this out, No-one is better then the other.
It makes me sad to see you guys like this.
I would be perfectly wiling to work it out, as I always have been. I of all people know how people sometimes grossly get their facts out of line and misjudge because of it.
I have already tried to talk to Dan about these problems. We ended that conversation on a good note. Then shortly after that I posted one thing about his brother that he didn't like and I once again bore a scarlet letter in his eyes.
I tried to AIM him once again when he interfered with my thread to you. He immediately signed off as soon as I did.
It is not up to me to solve anything here, because I have not wronged Dan in any way, shape or form. He has wronged me, singled me out, and attempted to ridicule me numerous times.
In other words, I'm tired of wearing the pants in the relationship. He knows whats right. If he truly wanted to reconcile things with me, he knows it would have been pure and simple and we could have been over all of this a long time ago. But certain people need to hold on to hate; I'm just glad I've learned in life not to be one of them.
wrote ... [22:35] Brobat22: what you said in my flame forum was very insightful [22:35] Brobat22: and im glad you said it [22:35] Hayleylovesjames: Yeah sorry I shouldn't have really.. [22:35] Brobat22: maybe dan will see it and value your opinion.
I hope you do Dan...
But both of you need to drop the whole ''I've done nothing wrong here, he/she should apologise to me'' thing you have.
If none of you back down. It WILL only get worse.
But yeah... I will rent a Wrestling ring for you both.. You can both dress up and punch the crap out of each other.. what do you think? hehe
Wow, you've suprised me and taken the wise response. Congratulations, now I can start respecting you again.
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Wow this should really be dealt with outside of here.
You are right. It should be. What your neglecting to acknowledge, however, is that Dan and I don't know each other in real life. It's one poster calling another poster out.
