It depends, there are guys who never seem to be able to put weight on - my dad for example. He's 52 and currently weighs about 115lbs. The most he ever weighed his whole life is probably 130. And he eats constantly. Needless to say, I inherited my build and metabolism from my mother's side of the family!
Anyway, I wouldn't worry about the actual weight, Kyle. Working out is its own reward. You feel better about yourself, both in terms of having a bit more visible muscle, and because you feel stronger and more confident in yourself. Plus there's that natural high... that I always find is well-enhanced by a little THC.
have you ever considered that you might have an anxiety issue, and that some anti-anxiety pills might be all it takes to get you to chit chat with the ladies?
Is she hot? Bring her along. Hot chicks are drawn to each other, once they're not bitchy. And two dudes and a girl look a lot less threatening than two dudes. Not that I think Kyle looks particularly threatening, necessarily, but a trio of friends allows for a sneakier attack, as it were.