No you said it, I just was explaining that your definition, though you went through a tough time with your addiction and subsequent withdrawal, that it is just as hard for someone else in any other situation. Most don't see other things like exercising too much, or too much sugar or too much water, or too much sex is neccessarily a bad thing, but anything is bad in excess. I was expounding more than thinking you were too obtuse to see my point. Sorry if I seemed like I was preaching. We're gravy.