I'd have to agree with Lucky on this. If you just wanted to pump them and dump them, you're taking too much time talking and getting to know them. You meet a girl, you fuck a girl and you disappear. If that's what you want to do.
baggy's not used to the idea of casual sex. he still wants to know them. R sounds like she has potential, but he's taking the long, scenic route with T. that leads me to belive he thinks T has more to offer in the long run.
Haha. I would love to just fuck-and-go, but I don't know how! I mean just pop my dong out and say ride it BIATCH? I don't have any idea what the hell I'm doing. That's why I am trying to date/meet women. I need PRACTICE. I need the CONFIDENCE to be able to just let Mr. Wing Wong out to play.
But back to last night. "R" blew my mind. She's super cute, sexy and funny as fuck. She's also the oldest girl I've dated (27 - same as me). We had a really good time, but I was just too worried to try to put my arm around her or anything man. Anyway she's gonna call me after she gets off work tonight and we'll set up the next date. I need help with this one though -- I DO NOT want to fall in some fucking friend category or whatever. So I guess on the next date I HAVE to show her that.
I called "T" when I got off and she said she has to cancel tomorrow night but can do something "after Saturday". I said cool and I'm not sure if I'll call her back. Doesn't sound like she's that interested.
Also, if at some point you guys share a good laugh or find yourselves having a good time, don't be afraid to stop and say something like, "you know, this is fun. I really like you!"
Sounds cheesy or dumb, maybe, but it's an ideal opening for her to say something nice in return and then maybe wanna kiss you. Once you get that first kiss over with, shit gets WAY easier.
I'd say that since you were so comfortable with T and she was with you, she might, honestly be your best bet. You're too nervous with R so it probably will deadpan on you.
*shrugs* True, however, he's taking too long if he wants to fuck-n-chuck her. He's getting to know her too much and that will just cause him too much guilt.
It doesn't matter which one, he's taking too long. If you don't fuck-n-chuck within the first week of talking, you're taking too long. UNLESS you have no conscience at all. And VERY few guys can get to know a girl too much and fnc her and then walk away with zero guilty feelings. I'm just saying you genuinely are more comfortable with "T" so I'd go with her. You're not nearly as comfortable with "R" and she's apparently not as comfortable with you, since she hasn't (as of last count anyways) made any contact physically with you.
I had a second date today with "R" (lunch). I'm much more comfortable with her now. We talked about doing all sorts of shit together, including coming over to my place to play some video games (that is so hot - she's into gaming) and MORE I'm sure. She said that having lunch with me, "made her day". =) She definitely made mine.
