I had a second date today with "R" (lunch). I'm much more comfortable with her now. We talked about doing all sorts of shit together, including coming over to my place to play some video games (that is so hot - she's into gaming) and MORE I'm sure. She said that having lunch with me, "made her day". =) She definitely made mine.
Yeah, now when she comes over she can tell you all about the dickhead she works with that treats her like shit but he's sooooo hot and when some other guy she met fucks and chucks her you can be there for her to eat ben and jerrys with then she can paint your toe nails.
Nah you assholes are wrong. I mean she knows I replied to her CL ad "Cute 27 yr old professional looking for someone awesome" NOT to become fwends. 3rd date -- I'm going in for the kiss at the end of the date. There's no other way to take that. Hah weird... the topic of this thread was originally for a 3rd date for that other girl (that never happened), now the name fits again... and this one WILL happen.
1st was a handshake (both when greeting and departing) 2nd was a hug (both when greeting and departing) 3rd will be a kiss.
That will either seal or steal the deal. Oh did I mention she's into hedonism? She's also into tons of stuff I am. Video games (she was big into Half-Life team fortress classic -- played heavy weapons which is hilarious because she's super petite (under 5'), and World of Warcraft and when she told me that I promptly mocked her and laughed. I HATE anything Warcraft-related. She's also into technology and electronics, good food, learning, conspiracy theories and has a very similar viewpoint on religion.)
It might also be time to call "T" back tomorrow as well (just for a backup).
Edited Sun Jul 20 2008, 05:38am
Nah you assholes are wrong. I mean she knows I replied to her CL ad "Cute 27 yr old professional looking for someone awesome" NOT to become fwends.
does she? i guess you asked her, so you know for sure.
bagman wrote ...
1st was a handshake (both when greeting and departing) 2nd was a hug (both when greeting and departing) 3rd will be a kiss.
That will either seal or steal the deal. Oh did I mention she's into hedonism?
if anything at all happens here, it'll be a fuck & chuck on *your* ass.
bagman wrote ...
She's also into tons of stuff I am.
She's following krsna's advice from Page 1:
krapsna wrote ...
You're not trying to find a soulmate, you're trying to get your dick wet. You LIE and pretend you like all the shit she says she likes. Then you stick your dick in her a few times and both of you move on. It's a game, they don't expect you to like all the dumb crap they're into but they expect you to pretend you do.
YES!!! No more "possible" 3rd date bullshit. It's happening tomorrow night. But I do have to grow some balls to fucking ask her over to my place for dinner and a movie. We talked a while tonight and I mentioned all these movies I have that I think she'd like and she said yeah we should watch one sometime. But I just couldn't spit out you should come over and we'll have dinner and watch one. I just said "yeah" and she said "yeah" back hahaha. Tomorrow I'll NAIL something down DAMMIT. Confidence. Confidence. Confidence. Confidence. Confidence. Confidence. Confidence. Confidence. Confidence. Confidence.
ps - seriously, she's a girl you met on the internet. while you're at dinner, ask her to come to your place afterwards. don't say to watch a movie, don't say to play video games. maybe offer drinks, but otherwise just ask her.
worst case: she says no, and you lose a friend. best case: she says yes, and you lose your virginity.
do the goddamn math.
Edited Mon Jul 21 2008, 03:58am
