The 3rd date didn't happen. "R"s dog got pretty sick and that stressed her out pretty badly. Plus she said she has been house-sitting for a week and the owners of the house were coming back on Friday, so she had to make sure the place was all clean. She's in San Antonio all week this week for some conference she has to attend for her job. Basically, I've just been thrown a bunch of excuses, but she continues to say she wants to do something. I've backed off and haven't talked to her since Thursday. I'll ring her Wed, see how her week's going, see what's up.
BUT I always have another backup plan, my man. I met up with another girl, "G" last night for some roller derby action. Awesome chick. She smokes. My boss always says "Kyle, remember if she smokes, she pokes." Ended up doing to 3 - 4 bars after the roller derby, stayed until the bars closed up. FUCK. I wanted to like gently rub the lower of her back, or something but, baby steps. Right now I'm working on just being able to be comfortable talking with women. Anytime I think about starting something physical I get nervous a hell... I'm like "is it the right time", "will she punch me", "what if she actually LIKES it and asks to come by to my place", etc.
Anyway, I'm playing the "not that interested" game with "G" - and haha I knew it, she texted me today "I had a blast last night, and I think you are fun company." She was the one at the end of the night who said "We should do something again" - which I just didn't answer. Leave her a hanging a little bit. Make her wonder. I don't know how involved I want to get - she has a kiddo and most likely some drama with that.
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$5 says he doesn't even get MORE than a handjob, if that ... That may or may not iclude stinkfinger .... I'll go $1.50 he wussed out on the complete making out session ... I'll go $1 that she got rid of the kid to be alone with Kyle ... I'll go $.25 he actually got laid ...
And those are at "standard odds", so I shold make the same amount either way ....
Hey buds, so I'm going out with "G" again tonight. We're gonna see Snoop Dogg which is going to be so much fun man. Always wanted to see the d-o double g in concert. Old school rules.
As for Tuesday night, well that didn't go as planned. I went over and we watched a couple of movies... she just wanted some "company". She woke up with pink eye so wasn't feeling well, but wanted somebody to spend time with her. Drank some wine, but she just didn't seem like she was ready to fuck around man. We just lounged on the couch together, and I kept looking at her and she never looked back so I decided not to try a thing.
Anyway so I sent her a text that we should do something after the concert tonight if it's still pretty early (shouldn't go past 11pm I'm guessing). Hope to get her back to my place for some physical contact. Haha if she tries booty dancin with me tonight, there's no doubt she'll feel how interested I am in her.
Actually almost went out with "T" again (remember her?) Friday but the show I wanted to see (sneak peek of Tropic Thunder) was sold out. "R" is still in San Antonio. She broke her Blackberry and that's why she hadn't called/texted. She's e-mailing though.
I have a good feeling about tonight. Of course I had a good feeling about Tuesday night too. But I'm staying positive.
I also e-mailed two more gals on HotOrNot about going to another show on Tuesday night. Keep my options open and flowing. If I just keep it up, while I am on a roll I'll be done with this virgin problem by my birthday. (mid October)
I cut my losses tonight. The concert was bad ass -- Snoop was dope AS expected. During Akon's "I Wanna Fuck You" I made my intentions clear as a fucking bell to "G". I grinded a bit, and then slowly put my hand on the lower of her back. COCKBLOCKED! She pushed me away with her other arm (albeit gently). Blah blah, it turns out she just got divorced a couple of months ago and whatever, blah, she's been deleted from my hotornot list! She is NOT what I am looking for. I just want to fuck. Funny though this other cute Mexican chick start grinding on me... but I felt a little awkward with some COMPLETELY random chick. This despite the HUGE ganja cloud that knocked the hell out of my wits.
Snoop was incredible. 311 was pretty good too, but I'd seen then before and didn't really like them the first time.
Next show is Tuesday night. Gotta find a date! "R" is in San Antonio through Wed.
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This is why I'm saying you're taking to long to get to know them. To get laid, T was probably your best bet. She was the one that was the most familiar with you. R is someone you're getting to know too well, and she'll want a relationship. Which if that's cool with you, fine, but if you're just looking for pussy, just look for pussy.
