Yeah, and that's not what I want. You are exactly right Lusive -- after I walked her to her car we chatted for a bit and she said well hey if you ever want a "concert companion" hit me up. I can already tell I'm building up my confidence level. I mean I don't care, if I never talk with her again and wasn't personally hurt in the least (just a little disappointed there wasn't going to be ass involved last night) when she rejected my advances. Just like... oh ok, time to try the next girl.
I don't have a date to the show tomorrow night yet, but I just replied to a few CL ads, and messaged a couple of chicks on myspace/hotornot. We'll see if I get a bite.
I need some ear plugs ... my ears were actually ringing a bit last night for the first time after a show. I enjoy my hearing.
Holy shit, stop making this so god damn hard on yourself.
The girls that send you pics of them drinking will fuck on the first date. If you go to a bar for a date, they will fuck you that evening. If you take a girl who sends you a pic of them drinking to a bar for a date, and don't take them back and fuck them, you will always be their "companion."
The girls that send you the arty pics will fuck eventually. but if you don't kiss them by the second date, you will always be a "companion."
Take one of the drinking girls out to a bar and get yourself toasted as well; toasted enough to not get so geeky when it's time to seal the deal.
No real updates, except that "G" girl continues to text me, and wants to do shit. I text back but haven't done shite. I guess we can never have enough friends, but doing something with her is lowest on my list of things to do.
Enough with the bullshit. 2nd "Casual Encounter" meeting is happening tomorrow night, at my place. I'm ready! Got some Trojans, Pinot Noir, and freshly clean sheets.
Edited Tue Aug 12 2008, 12:07am
Better is a relative term. I'd say it's sort of like comparing pizza from Grimaldi's in Brooklyn to pizza from one of the national chains. While they're both pretty tasty, clearly, Grimaldi's is the superior product. But if eating Grimaldi's comes with the added risk of getting pregnant or ending up with a nasty or even life-threatening disease, you're better off with Pizza Hut, at least until you can get a health inspector to make sure there's no AIDS in the better pizza. If that makes sense.
BTW, in case anyone from Grimaldi's should happen to ever read this, I just want to point out that I feel sorta bad for using you in that analogy - your pizza was the best I've ever had.