Life's a bitch, because if it was a Slut it would be Easy
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haha just because i dont think sex isnt an important part of a relationship doesnt mean i dont have sex at all. I just dont feel relationships should be based on the amount of sex you have.
Basing a relationship purely on sex probably isn't gonna work. At least not for long. But I'd say that the fact that you feel the need to point out how NOT important sex is to you speaks to some insecurities you probably have, which would probably fuck up a relationship almost as badly as basing it only on sex. No (healthy) relationship I've ever been in has been purely based on sex, but too much sex has never been a problem either. A healthy relationship will maintain itself to a large extent - placing some sort of quota on how much sex is allowed doesn't sound healthy to me.
I dunno, I really love sex however, I'm picky about who I have sex with. But when I'm in a relationship with someone, sex is important to a degree. I've not had a happy relationship where we DIDN'T have lots of sex....hmmm....
The girls I was with, I usually had to beat them off with a stick (not that kind of beating off). I only have a sex drive these days when I'm on speed. And then I can't get it up. And for some reason I'm stuck in the mindset that I'm never gonna get laid again. Mostly because since I lost weight I got a taste of what it's like to be with a hot chick and I really don't want another fattie for a while, the last bitch gave me little friends and I'm sure no chick wants that, and also I've been unsuccessfully trying to off myself for a while now and I'm sure I'm bound to succeed at some point. Soooooo, I'm just gonna fuck my hands.
Edited Tue Dec 16 2008, 02:10am
Life's a bitch, because if it was a Slut it would be Easy
Joined: Tue Nov 18 2008, 01:59pm
Location: Floriduh
Posts: 99
danzig wrote ...
That's just what fatties say. Takes one to know one.
haha i know i am fat and i am proud actually to be honest my fiance told me if i lost too much weight he would leave me XD.
But in all honesty guys, I never said i didnt like sex and i never said i was a virgin ither. all i am saying is every guy i have dated (with the exception of my fiance) has cheated on me. Mainly because the first date i didnt jump in bed with them. then they felt like they were in the RIGHT because if they werent getting it from me they were gonna get it else where. well i have seen relationships fall apart from jumping into bed with each other too soon so i am just cautious i suppose but laugh all you want i dont care
Edited Tue Dec 16 2008, 08:13am
haha i know i am fat and i am proud actually to be honest my fiance told me if i lost too much weight he would leave me XD.
Hahaha, oh man, that's a good one. Well he definitely knows what a woman wants to hear. I always knew the right things to say, but I'm a very blunt and truthful person that is more likely just to tell you how things are. I would tell my ex that the less she tried to have sex with me then the more I'd want to have sex with her, but she couldn't fucking stand not fucking or masturbating daily and when she WOULD masturbate she would always beg me to "help" her which entailed sucking on her nipples and pretending that I enjoyed it when all I could think about was how I was missing Attack Of The Show and wondering what silly videos they were airing on Around The Net.
Dude I get the feeling that you and Kitten are made for each other. You don't wanna fuck anymore and neither does she. It's a match made in dysfunction!
I would enjoy being in a relationship like that after being with so many demanding girls. Most guys usually fantasize about being with nymphos, but it's horrible if your sex drive has dropped off the charts because you feel like you can't please your girl. Here are my rules: I love to cuddle all the time, like when watching TV and stuff, EXCEPT directly after sex and if I'm trying to get to sleep. Keep your fucking body away from me if I'm trying to sleep and make sure to shut the fuck up and roll over after sex.
Edited Tue Dec 16 2008, 07:51pm
Well KoC, I wouldn't say that you should fuck on the first date. That's no way to START a relationship. And I'm not knocking you for how you feel. I guess I misunderstood you to mean that you lack much sex drive and are willing to NOT have sex for the sake of testing out the relationship. It's all good though. You have a man that loves you and you love him. I say rock on with that!
and Danzig, you might actually get your sex drive back if you'd lay off the drugs.
