After spending a weekend at the beach with many, many pairs of lovely female feet, I came to the conclusion that my obsession with women's feet is something less than a fetish. I mean, I love looking at them and when I'm with someone who has pretty feet I'm a dedicated toe sucker. But I don't really get any sexual satisfaction out of it. The idea of a foot job just doesn't do much for me and I've never had one. I just like looking at pretty feet the way other people like looking at the work of Monet.
Nah it's not too much, It's better than a true foot fetishist in my opinion, because some love feet so much that they'd suck anyone's toe if they thought that they are nice enough looking. AND some are so disabled by it that they can ONLY get off with feet. You just have a "healthy" appreciation for a pretty foot.
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i have heard, well, we have all heard that married sex is bad. i have seen and heard that people get uncomfortable and resentful after they get married.... ...i think they must have married the wrong person.
i married the right person. we fit together in every way. we never run out of things to talk about. we knew each other for about a year before we got together, and then we were together for a year before we got married.
i think it's too bad when people get married and then they start to resent each other.
also, if a person is cheating, they obviously were not ready to get married.
it's like jerry springer.
they get married, or get to gether and then they cheat. why would you TELL someone you are committed to them and then go find some strange? that i do not understand.
the sex Andy and i have is perfect. it is an expression of the love we share. it is also really, really satisfying.
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omg, that reply is surprising! thank you! i spent about 6 years just hanging on to life by a line of dope or a needle. i was suicidal and begging for the balls to end my life. it took me the last 3 years of serious mental health work, therapy, inpatient treatment, outpatient treatment, lots of rehab, and hard work on myself to get here. i am at a place where i can finally breathe. i am goign to go write about something in my room. even though i am happy, i am in serious trouble..... and... it figures... i could blame god, but really it's my fault...
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maybe... but either way i think that if i were to blame god, it would be an attempt to not be accountable for my own actions, and that just isn't something i will do.
