Joined: Wed Feb 28 2007, 12:14am
Location: Under Your Mom's Meat Flaps!
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Yeah, she's got a new man (a really nice looking guy too) who's redone her house, and she's doing fine. I still help her out (and her family) with computer stuff, and we all get along just fine. After 7+years, we're technically family, to a point, and we see it that way.
Yes, without being married, I went through a divorce ... Thank ALLAH it was peaceful and I/we didn't lose anything in the process that we owned and loved/needed ....
Joined: Sat Mar 03 2007, 05:15pm
Location: creeping up behind you
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that's fucking cool... i mean, who the hell NEEDS to deal with all the negative bullshit that usually surrounds divorce and breaking up? that's nice.
and what you said about you two basically being family is neat too...
i am glad though, that Andy doesn't consider any of his exs family, if that were the case i would be outta here pronto, because the two i have met (cuz of kids) are fucking psycho.
the last one makes me look like alice in wonderland...
I dated Rob for about 8 years and I still get invited over to his family's house for Christmas and Thanksgiving. We do feel a lot like family. It's really hard not to when you've been with someone for so long and the end wasn't bitter, just bittersweet.
in this case only etymologically speaking. Pretty much anything ending even something amicable can still be painful, but not bitter. Bitter would denote something some sort of animosity or anger.
Anyways! I didn't just get laid, however, I did a couple of days ago. And it was the kind where the hair looks like a rats nest and the bed clothes are all the way on the other side of the room, there are scratch marks on the wall, and no idea how any of that happened. ahhhh, yeah....
give yourself time. Moving is stressful. There's all the packing and then the unpacking, and the cleaning of the old place, and the redecorating of the new place. And the new driving routes, and the bills and deposits and all that stuff. Give yourself some time to adjust. You're also re-adjusting to a new and sober Andy. It'll all come back. Don't fret over it.
