Haha! Well I messaged her asking if I left my debit card at her place. She says she doesn't know but when she gets home she'll clean up and see if she can find it. She asked if I am coming over and I told her I am "meeting up with a friend tonight" but can probably stop by tomorrow.
This is getting too complicated. I don't want to have to start lying because I respect her and myself enough to not lie. I didn't really lie when I said I am "meeting up with a friend tonight" - the girl, I'll call her "K2", that I am meeting up with tonight is technically a friend for now. (Oh yes btw I did call her and we ARE meeting up this evening at 9 at this local gelato joint.)
*sigh* I absolutely CANNOT string "J2" along anymore. When I see her next, I have to man up. Hell, maybe she'll just want to be FWB.
And this, baggie, is the reason I chose not to encourage you regarding the whole trying for 3-4 women. Because I'm aware how much it sucks for you (we seem to be fairly similar in our attitudes to girls) to string em along when they like you
Ugh. Just spent an hour and half getting my ear talked off by "K2" (the girl I am meeting in a few hours). She insinuated at getting dinner, but I said no let's just each grab food and meet up for dessert/drinks like the original plan. She also says we should go see "The Curious Story of Benjamin Button"...
... she also started talking about how soft her bed is, and that she doesn't sleep in pajamas, and her voice is fucking sexy!
Haha I don't know if I'm up for trying to take her home on the FIRST meeting, but she sounds like she's open to it.
It's nap time before the big night.
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"K2" is infatuated with me. We went to the gelato place and talked, played Scrabble, talked, played dominoes, ate and shared gelato flavors. Almost immediately I could sense the "bossiness" in this chick. Fuuuuuuck that. But I could tell she was really into me. So I gave her a second chance... we went out again today, but I purposefully didn't pay for her movie ticket and we met up. None of that I'll pick you up bullshit.
The entire movie she was all over me haha. She's not that attractive, and I wasn't into her at all. So I said goodbye and "take care". She's texted me over and over and over this evening. I gotta let her know I'm not interested in her. I thought she'd figure it out with the way I acted but apparently not or chose to ignore my cues. I could have fucked her I am positive, but I do actually feel bad leading a chick on, for some lovely pink.
My de-virginizer, I let her know I am not looking for a relationship and she says she isn't either and is glad I don't want to be serious. I now have to figure out if I am going to continue getting ass from her every once in a while, or stop and continue looking.
I've concluded that I want a girlfriend. I want a girl that is super cool, and that I am attracted to, not just any random girl.
So that is my next FIRST. A relationship. Never been in one.
One day, after you've been in that relationship for many years, you're going to reflect on all the free pussy you turned down and wish you could go back in time and kick your own ass.
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Agreed ...
You have a girl THAT WILL FUCK YOU WITH NO (apparent) STRINGS ATTACHED, so, you fuck her, and anyone else, and when you find one you REALLY LIKE, you make her "your girlfriend" ....
You just opened up your xmas gift to yourself; ... enjoy playing with it for a bit before you put it on the shelf and forget about it!
Yeah, if ol' girl is wanting a friends with benefits package, DO NOT TURN THAT SHIT DOWN! Seriously. And when you find a girl that you're serious about, you guys just call it quits, just like when she finds a guy that she's serious about. I don't know about the whole fucking every jane doe that is willing to spread her legs, but getting ass on the regular from a chick who just likes a good piece of ass herself is NOT a bad thing. Also remember, that this COULD be the cool as hell chick that you could like....you never know. Just don't rush anything right now. Enjoy what you've got going on, because Krsna is right, one day, when your pussy getting days are over you're going to wish you had Doc Brown's DeLorean so you can kick your own ass.
I am actually listening to you all on this one! "Cherry popper" is coming over later this week. This is also fantastic practice for me. Still haven't told her she was the first chick I had sex with, but I may just do that when she comes over. Mainly because I want to see her expression/hear what she has to say. If she wasn't lying/over-dramatizing when she whispered "That was so good" the first night, and "How do you do that?" New Year's maybe I've been rocking her world. (Obviously her moaning and shuddering should tell me that too - but don't girls fake sometimes?) Listen, it wouldn't be that far-fetched.
Unlike a 15 year old fucking for the first time, who has only had a year of porn-viewing (or maybe even never seen porn), I've had ongoing sex-ed for close to 15 years, in the form of porn. So I wasn't going into this completely blind. I'm more mature and I know you gotta get the girl warmed up and wet first, and make her ache for your throb.
Anyway, that would be fantastic if she says something like "Wow I had no idea." "I couldn't tell at all." "Holy shit you are awesome, I would have never known." "You are my best lay ever." hah but on the flip side I also won't care that much at all if she says "Oh that explains how terrible you are" or "No wonder you tried fucking the wrong hole" or even "Was that even sex?" because I haven't ever done it before! So I have no ego to shatter!! This is a pretty awesome situation.
Haha so what will I lose in telling her? Right?
So annoying... so annoying. This "K2" girl texted me a handful of times today asking if I wanted to come over to her place and watch the "fiesta bowl". She just called but luckily didn't leave a vmail. I haven't responded at all. I hope she gets the drift.
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