I can't get the mechanics of it. It looks easy in porn, and it probably should be but the few times I've tried to fuck "J" doggy style I can't seem to get my cock in easily. I dunno if the height difference screws it up - doubtful since there's really only a 7 inch difference. Maybe she needs to try getting on her elbows instead of her hands and lifting that ass up?
On Friday we tried again, and I felt like her cunt was too tight to even begin to get inside from behind. It was definitely her cunny as I didn't have it right the first placement. She was like "farther Down" after my first attempt. So I sort of squated back and she squated back too so it was a "kind of" doggy style, but like a sitting doggy style. It's started to piss me off, because I thought of all positions that one would be the most likely to make be blow my load. But I can't even begin to master it.
I'll probably try having her stay on the bed bent over, on the edge of it, and I'll stand up and if I am gauging it my head correctly it'll be the perfect height . Or maybe have her leaning against the wall (standing) and try that way.
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I further that motion.
As for the height thing - strengthen your legs - you will need to be in many awkward positions for hopefully an extended period of time depending on your partners size. Be she 5' or 6', you will find that a good strong set of calves and thighs will highten both of your experience as long as you can maintain it.
Surprisingly, some women just can't figure doggie style out and if they're inexperienced then forget it! With your lack of experience thrown into the mix it's easy to see how problems might arise.
It all comes down to getting your dick and her pussy hole at the proper height for maximum thrusting. Do her legs need to be closer together or further apart? Back arched or not arched? Face down or on hands or elbows?
These are all things the two of you will have to experiment with (yeah, what a drag!) I fully support trying Si's recommendation of her on bed with you standing and offer another possible way that works out well I like to call "couch style".
You standing, her with legs apart and knees on the edge of the couch. She's facing the back of the couch of course. Imagine you've dropped something behind the couch and have climbed onto it and are trying to retrieve it, that's the basic position.
At any rate, with you standing it's easier for you to adjust the angle of attack as necessary then it is to adjust her position.
If you're still having trouble post some pics of the action from various angles so we can properly determine the exact cause of your difficulties and suggest the proper remediation.