Do you have any religion, or spiritual beliefs you would care to share with us?
Religion, no. I?m a Christian, but I really don?t know much about the various denominations and religious stuff. I don?t judge people for how they live their lives and I don?t get in anyone?s faces about my beliefs. I?ve never seen anyone ?convert? anyone else by beating them over the head, usually just the opposite. Christians in general get a bad rap because of the annoying over-the-top nuts that seem to always have the spotlight. I just do my thing and live my life the way I believe is right.
...... where are you from? ...what's your current location?....do you like it?
I live in Nebraska, born and raised here, now live in a tiny town about 60 miles from my birthplace. Our community and school are pretty nice. Goo has lived here in this town his whole life; we both have a lot of family here and in near by towns. Life is generally good and we like it here. We are planning to start remolding Goo?s dad?s old house so hopefully in a couple years we will have a nice big house to move into. Right now we are living on the family farm in the house Goo?s grandpa built.
Do you work?
Do I work? I?m a mom of 4 kids, when do I not work? Lol
....... whats your job description? ... did you go to school for it?
Let?s see, I?m on-call 24 hours a day, no weekends, no vacations. I?m a teacher, homework helper, backpack stuffer, lunchbox packer, booboo fixer, medicine dispenser, temperature taker, comfort giver, diaper changer, laundry washer, book reader, short-order cook, dish washer, bathroom scrubber, bug swatter, hygiene moderator, activity coordinator, barber, chauffeur, etc?.I?m sure I left something out, but Imma stop now. lol No I didn?t go to school for this, lol
Are you married? ...How long? ...... Do you love him?..... or do you stay just for the kids? or money?..conveinience?.......do you trust him?
Yep, married, for 11 years now, been together for 12 years. I love him with all my heart! Sure, we get on each others nerves at times, but at the end of the day, there?s no one I?d rather be with. It?s all about the love, baybee, not money (what money would that be anyway? lol) or convenience. Our kids are just icing on the cake. I trust him 100% in being faithful to our marriage.
You have got children? *sniffs air, like chitty chitty bang bang dude* Ewww that guy creeped me out big time! *shudders*
..................................how many? what ages?..... boys or girls?
We have 4 kids, #1 boy age 7, #2 boy age 5, #3 boy age 3 and #4 girl age 8 months And even though you didn?t ask, yes it gets very crazy around here at times, wild lil buggers! Ahhhhh, what were we thinking?? Lol but really they?re great kids
Did you get post pardom depression? ...feel edgy?
Yes, after my first I had the baby blues for a couple months, and I had a bit with the other kids too but I didn?t notice it quite as much because I was so busy lol. I do get down in the dumps off and on. I?ve been feeling a bit down the last few weeks, not sure why *shrug* but I just put my goofy face forward and keep smiling anyway
.........Do you have any mental or personality disorders? Did/does your husband drink the breast milk? ... LOL!
I think I have a somewhat addictive personality; I easily get obsessed with things and get lost in them if I?m not careful. I?m working on not being such a perfectionist. I procrastinate too much. Pretty sure these aren?t really disorders though. Hmmm. Now how does the breast milk question fit in here? *raises eyebrow* Well, he has tasted it a few times, but I wouldn?t say he drinks it. It?s actually quite good though, really sweet.
What are your worst fears, concerning your kids?
That I can?t protect them forever, they will have to learn of all the ugly things in the world. I?ve heard it said, and it?s so true, that having kids is like having your heart walking around outside your body. They are a part of me, and it?s hard to let go and know they will sometimes get hurt.
when you dress your kids, do you put on a sock and a shoe, or two socks then two shoes?
2 socks and then 2 shoes usually, though I have done the other at times, depending on if the pair of shoes and socks are together or if each piece is in a different room of the house. lol
Do you have any pets?
We have probably 20 ? 30? cats and kittens not sure how many really, and they are outside only. We live on a farm so cats are nice to have around, especially for keeping mice away in the winter. No pets in the house, though. Before kids I had 2 beautiful Persian cats in the house but the hair everywhere was a big pain. So when #1 was born I found new homes for the cats so I wouldn?t have to deal with the hair anymore. Now I just can?t stand animal hair in my house, just seems nasty to me now.
Do you Sing or play an instument or dance? hobbies? crafts?
I can?t sing, can?t play an instrument, can?t dance without embarrassing myself, lol. I have a flower bed I mess around in every summer and next year I?m going to try planting a veggie garden again. My favorite hobby right now is taking pictures with the digital camera and playing with them in PhotoShop lol
Do you party?.. like clubbing? cards? swingers?
Do kid?s birthday parties count? I?ve never been to a club. Cards? Like poker? Nah. Swingers?
Uhhh, no.
.......are you kinky? .... if so how? do you own a sex toy?
Not really kinky as far as I know. I just do whatever, nothing too wild though. *shrug* The only toy I have is one of those cheap plastic piece-o-junk ?massage? vibrators, but it just sits in the drawer, never use it. I should just toss the stupid thing.
ever take it in the butt?
Unfortunately, yes, and it?s not enjoyable to me at all. I avoid it as much as possible, though I do give in on rare occasions. There are much better things we can do that we both enjoy, I think our sexual experiences should be for both of us, not him having fun and me putting up with crap I don?t like. Humph
Do you smoke?
I don?t smoke, never had the urge to try it. For the most part I grew up in a non-smoking home, my dad quit smoking when I was pretty little, plus I was asthmatic as a kid. Second hand smoke makes me gag.
.............Ever have an addiction to anything?
Ummm, Chocolate? lol
What drugs have you tried?
I assume you mean recreational drugs, so none for me. I never had the opportunity to try drugs and I never had the urge to seek any out. I?m proud to be squeaky clean, lol
should they be legal?
I guess I don?t see a point to them being illegal, people get um anyway. I hate that there are so many people who get sucked up into that whole mess, but it?s their decision to make. It would be best if there just weren?t any to be had, problem solved.
.................should prostitution be legal?
Again, I don?t see a point for it to be illegal. As long as it?s between consenting adults, anyway.
Ever been Beaten up?
Nope
......or thrown out of anywhere?
Nope
Ever Shoplifted?
I once put a little notebook in my pocket when I was shopping. I forgot I put it there and when I got out to the car and found it was still in my pocket I went back in the store and paid for it!
If you were standing in a barrel of shit up to your chin, and someone threw a bucket of snot at your head, would you duck?
I probably would, just my automatic response though, lol
What is your favourite musical genre and artists(S)
I like all kinds of music. A bit of everything from country, rock, pop, R&B, Christian, oldies, classical, just whatever really. I don?t listen to music that much these days though, I never remember to turn it on.
.......... What is your favourite film(s)?
I like romances and comedies?. and romantic comedies lol
if someone did a movie about your life, what actor would play you? ..............what would the theme song be?
I was afraid you?d ask this, I have no idea on either of these. My life is so not movie worthy lol
ever dream about flying?
Yes .....ever hit the ground when you fall in dreams?
No .............ever dream about murdering someone?
No
What is your favorite color?.....favorite smell?
Color would be probably blue, but I like to wear pink a lot. Smell could be a lot of things, vanilla, fresh baked goodies (like home made bread, cookies, brownies yum) Goo?s freshly shaved face, mmmm
ever see a ghost?
I don?t think so *looks around nervously* ...........do you belive in ghosts? Maybe?Goo thinks he saw his mom looking into our second son?s crib when he was a baby, that was maybe 6 months after she had passed away. Kinda cool anyway.
what's your favorite beverage?
Cream Soda or Root Beer, but I drink water most of the time.
what are you are proudest of?
My kids, they are the best!
if you could have three wishes, what would they be?
1. World peace! lol 2. To be rich and anonymous 3. For my whole family to live stress free, healthy and happy the rest of our lives.
Who is/was the biggest influence in your life?
Probably my mom. She?s been through so much in her life, yet she keeps on keeping on. I don?t aspire to be just like her, but I have learned a lot from her. She?s awesome!
If you could have any superpower what would it be?
(like flying, obe wan kenobe power of suggestion, mind reading, seeing thru walls)
Oh gosh, I dunno! It might be cool to be invisible sometimes.
What are your worst qualities?
I worry too much; I obsess, perfectionism, procrastination, lazy, impatient
...................What are your strengths?
I have strengths? lol
Would you like to add anything that you feel is part of your essence, or characterizes you?
Ummm, not sure what else? How about ?Say NO to circumcision!?
that was delightful daphi. ....you are so pure, I'm marveling at you.
Let?s just stick with Daphi